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The Birth of a Mother
Ten years ago today my life changed beyond recognition Ten years ago today I endured the worst pain I have ever felt in my life Ten years ago today I endured more indignity than anybody should Ten years ago today … Continue reading
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Tagged birth trauma, motherhood, mothering, new baby, new family, new mother, newborn, traumatic birth
