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This is such a powerful quote and one that is so important for us all to remember, especially if we are parents or work with children. . Anger, violent outbursts, shouting and yelling, particularly if prolonged or recurrent all mask feelings of anxiety, sadness, worry and grief. . . To lessen these undesirable behaviours, we have to understand what is happening to cause the underlying feelings of ‘dis-ease’. We have to make the child feel happy, calm, loved and supported again. If we punish, shame, exclude or chastise we only add to the sad feelings that are causing the anger. .and ultimately, we make it worse. . . #gentleparenting #gentlediscipline #peacefulparenting #peacefulparent #consciousparenting #mindfulparenting #mindfulmothering #consciousmothering #consciousdiscipline #attachmentparenting #positivediscipline #sarahockwellsmith #gentledisciplinebookMy day today...writing chapter four of ‘The Second Baby Book’. All about preparing number one for number two. 🧒🏼👧🏾👶🤰🏻🤱🏽👩👧 . It’s SUCH a meaty chapter; including how to bedshare with two, how to stop bedsharing before number two arrives (and get them ‘sleeping through the night’ and settling for someone other than mum), the science of tandem feeding and how to do it and how to wean from breastfeeding (full stop or just at night) before number two arrives, settling into daycare, potty training when pregnant (or with a newborn), preparing number one emotionally, introducing the new siblings and the most pressing question of all “should you buy your firstborn a present from the new baby?” . I’m actually beginning to think this chapter could be a whole book by itself 😂 . Book is out in 8mths and I haven’t spell/grammar checked this yet 😉 (I know there are many errors - I write first, then copyread/edit later, otherwise it kills the ‘flow’!). . . . #gentleparenting #secondbaby #secondbabybook #newbigbrother #newbigsister #expectingagain #secondpregnancy #attachmentparenting #mindfulparenting #consciousparenting #peacefulparenting #cosleeping #babycalm #toddlercalm #bedsharing #tandemnursing #tandemfeeding #newbook #sarahockwellsmith #authorsofinstagramI didn’t realise how much I loved to swear until I had kids 😂 - did you know it’s supposed to be a sign of intelligence though? . . . #swearing #cursing #gentleparenting #mindfulparenting #monkeyseemonkeydo #rolemodel #sarahockwellsmith #parentingfail #parentingfun #motheringBoys don’t need any special parenting (neither do girls). What they DO need is parents to raise them compassionately, respectfully and free of gender stereotypes! . . . #gentleparenting #gentlediscipline #positiveparenting #positivediscipline #consciousparenting #consciousdiscipline #attachmentparenting #naturalparenting #mindfulparenting #peacefulparenting #genderneutral #raisingboys #raisinggirls #boymom #boymum #boymama #boymumma #mothertoboys #mumtoboysTop Posts & Pages
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The Three Biggest Mistakes Parents Make When Disciplining Children
It doesn’t matter if you’re an authoritarian parent, hot on punishment and reward, or a gentle parent, focused on connection and empathy. Your kid is going to misbehave. Because that’s what they do….. Continue reading
Why Common Discipline Methods Don’t Work (and What to do Instead)
most common discipline methods focus on encouraging children to do and be better, so that they are motivated by rewards if they behave ‘well’ and punishments if they misbehave. This would seem sensible, but it makes one huge mistake. Continue reading
Gentle Parenting – You Mean ‘Hippy, Pushover Parenting’? Busting Ten Gentle Parenting Myths.
…if people ask me to explain gentle parenting in a nutshell I always say the same “treating children how we would like to be treated ourselves”. To this day I don’t understand why it is so controversial, except perhaps that we don’t treat ourselves very well? Continue reading
Posted in Babies, Mothering, Preschoolers, Teens, Toddlers, Tweens
Tagged childcare expert, discipline techqniques, gentle discipline, gentle discipline book, gentle parenting, gentle parenting book, gentle parenting expert, how to discipline, natural consequences, parenting expert, positive discipline, positive parenting, problem with naughty step, problem with time out
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Using Consequences as a Discipline Tool
Consequences can be an effective discipline tool when used mindfully and carefully. Sadly consequences can also be ineffective and even damaging, depending on how and when they are used. There also seems to be a lot of confusion surrounding the use of consequences as a form of discipline. The largest source of confusion seems to be that of the difference between natural and logical consequences, something I hope to clear up in this post. Continue reading
Posted in Teens, Toddlers, Tweens
Tagged child development expert, childcare expert, consequences, examples of logical consequences, examples of natural consequences, gentle discipline, gentle parenting discipline, logical consequences, natural consequences, parenting expert, parenting expert UK, sarah ockwell-smith discipline, the gentle discipline book, what are natural consequences
The Gentle Sleep Book – 13-24 month (1-2 year) old toddler sleep Q&As.
On the first Wednesday of every month I run a free Sleep Q&A session on my Facebook Page for ‘The Gentle Sleep Book’. I often find that the questions that are asked are repeated quite frequently and there tend to be … Continue reading
Posted in Toddlers
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The Gentle Sleep Book – 7-12 month old baby sleep Q&As.
On the first Wednesday of every month I run a free Sleep Q&A session on my Facebook Page for ‘The Gentle Sleep Book’. I often find that the questions that are asked are repeated quite frequently and there tend to be … Continue reading
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Ten Common Baby Parenting Myths You Might Believe (and why you shouldn’t).
There are so many parenting myths in circulation in society. I’m sure you’ve come across many yourself. Many of them are obviously myths and therefore easy to ignore. Others however seem far more ingrained and sound more plausible. Their plausibility and popularity cause a great deal of misunderstanding, and often stress, for vulnerable new parents. Continue reading
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5 Reasons Modern-Day Parenting is in Crisis – According to a British Mother
A few days ago the HuffPost posted this article: 5 Reasons Modern-Day Parenting is in Crisis – According to a British Nanny and social media has been awash with horrified responses ever since. I must admit the article made me feel a little … Continue reading
Posted in Mothering, Preschoolers, Toddlers, Tweens
Tagged 5 reasons modern day parenting is in crisis, baby expert, baby expert UK, baby sleep expert, british nanny parenting, Emma Jenner, huff post, huffington post, parenting expert, parenting expert UK, supernanny. problems with modern day parenting, uk baby expert, uk parenting expert
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Is it Time for a New Approach to Paediatric Eczema?
I have specialised in working with babies and children with eczema – and other skin conditions – for the past 10 years. first as a research analyst in a large Pharmaceutical company – working with off licence immuno suppressive drugs and latterly as … Continue reading
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